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Being the Change We Single People Want to See: Guest Post by Jaclyn Geller

Being the Change We Single People Want to See: Guest Post by Jaclyn Geller

ByBella DePaulo 10/25/202104/07/2024

Jaclyn Geller is guest-posting here to share her bold (and sometimes hilarious) Call to Action for single people who are tired of the pervasive unfairness that advantages married people and…

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Marriage Fundamentalism Is a Threat to the Dignity and Well-Being of Single People and Their Families

Marriage Fundamentalism Is a Threat to the Dignity and Well-Being of Single People and Their Families

ByBella DePaulo 05/13/201904/07/2024

Do you know what “marriage fundamentalism” is? Everyone should. It is a regressive, inaccurate, stigmatizing ideology that is a threat to the dignity and well-being of all adults who are…

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Singlism and Matrimania

ByBella DePaulo 11/07/201804/07/2024

“Singlism” is the stereotyping, stigmatizing, marginalizing and discrimination against people who are single. “Matrimania” is the over-the-top hyping of marriage, weddings, and couplings. I coined those terms. Probably hundreds of…

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Single-Minded Change Agents: Slaying Singlism, Mocking Matrimania, and Creating a Better World for Single People

ByBella DePaulo 08/20/201604/07/2024

I’ve been on a decades-long mission to push back against all the misrepresentations of single people as sad and lonely losers, and to showcase more accurate portrayals of how real…

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My Letter to the Editor of TIME on its Latest Matrimanical and Singlist Cover Story

ByBella DePaulo 06/13/201604/07/2024

It is June 13, 2016. The year is not even halfway over, but Time magazine just published its 37th story about marriage. Below is the letter I sent to the…

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Part 2: Getting Married Makes You Happier? Again, No

ByBella DePaulo 07/27/201504/07/2024

[This post was originally published at Psychology Today. I just discovered that it disappeared! I have no idea why, but I thought I’d just republish it at my own site…

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Single Parents and Their Children: The Good News No One Ever Tells You

ByBella DePaulo 07/15/201504/07/2024

I have been scrutinizing the research on single parents and their children for more than a decade. I’ve learned lots of things, but perhaps the most important one is this:…

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If You Are Single, Is There a Place for You in Your Place of Worship?

ByBella DePaulo 04/13/201504/07/2024

Some years back, there was a time when I was getting so many comments and emails from single people who were not feeling welcome in their places of worship that…

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Check Your Marital Privilege

ByBella DePaulo 02/14/201504/07/2024

[This article is co-authored – in alphabetical order – by Lisa Arnold, Rachel Buddeberg, Christina Campbell, and Bella DePaulo. We are cross-posting it on all of our blogs.] “White privilege”…

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    • People featured in Single at Heart
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    • Collections of articles and blog posts about singles
    • Books about deception (and Dexter)
    • Books on singles with chapters by Bella Depaulo
    • Books on deception with chapters by Bella Depaulo
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    • Blogs About Singles And Single Life
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    • Op-Ed Essays And Other Articles
    • What We Really Know About Single Life
    • Scholarly Papers
    • The Community Of Single People
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