COVER, How We Live Now


If you buy a copy of How We Live Now: Redefining Home and Family in the 21st Century (a new one, not one you already have), I’ll send you a free copy of one of my other books. Shipping is also free if your shipping address is within the continental U.S. If it is not, I’m happy to pay the first $3.22 (what it will cost me to ship to most US addresses) if you will pay the rest.

I have lots of copies of the hardcover edition of Singled Out, and only a small number of copies of the others. So if you want a book other than the hardcover of Singled Out as your free book, you may want to list a second choice in case your first choice is already gone.

If you want a free book, let me know, bellaDepaulo[at]

  1. When and where you bought How We Live Now
  2. Which of my books you would like as your free book (include a second choice if the book you want is not a hardcover of Singled Out)
  3. Your mailing address
  4. Optional: if you want me to sign the free book I’m sending you, let me know that, too

The books that are available are:

  • Singled Out, in hardcover (the only book available as a hardcover)
  • Singled Out, in paperback
  • Singlism: What It Is, Why It Matters, and How to Stop It
  • Single with Attitude: Not Your Typical Take on Health and Happiness, Love and Money, Marriage and Friendship
  • Behind the Door of Deceit: Understanding the Biggest Liars in Our Lives
  • The Hows and Whys of Lies
  • Is Anyone Really Good at Detecting Lies? Professional Papers
  • The Lies We Tell and the Clues We Miss: Professional Papers
  • Friendsight: What Friends Know that Others Don’t. Professional Papers

You can find links to all of the books (and some others not on offer since I don’t have any extra copies) here.