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		<title>Comment on Single Woman in a Family of Married Women: Guest Post by Mary Edwards by Alan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2012 19:11:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really like this story of life as a single person, evocative and vivid!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Marry No One &#8212; The Case for Being Happy Single: Guest Post by Maya Bernadett by mayabee123</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 19:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much navy single for your very kind response!</description>
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		<title>Comment on What I’m Up to These Days by Onely</title>
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		<dc:creator>Onely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 00:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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I wish I knew some people living alternative living arrangements, but I don&#039;t. Good luck! I&#039;m looking forward to hearing what you figure out.  = ) 

CC

PS. Text messaging is handy!  HA no pun intended!</description>
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<p>I wish I knew some people living alternative living arrangements, but I don&#8217;t. Good luck! I&#8217;m looking forward to hearing what you figure out.  = ) </p>
<p>CC</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Dylan Ratigan Show Briefly Puts Matrimania on Pause to Acknowledge Solo Living by jnsites2</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 21:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Is Marriage a Risk to Your Credit Rating? Guest Post by Rajiv Garg by sesameB</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 17:15:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, or course. Thanks for the reminder.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Is Marriage a Risk to Your Credit Rating? Guest Post by Rajiv Garg by progree</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 15:26:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s a couple of items that there is credit discrimination against the unmarried (or to put it another way, that you will do better in a joint purchase if you are married than if you are unmarried):

# Unmarried joint applicants are sometimes offered credit on less favorable terms than married counterparts.  ( Unmarried America Business Week 10/20/03, www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/.../b3854001_mz001.htm )

# The High Cost of Being Single in America, or the financial consequences of marital status discrimination, by Thomas F. Coleman -- this has quite a bit on this subject in the &quot;4. Credit discrimination&quot; section
http://www.unmarriedamerica.org/cost-discrimination.htm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a couple of items that there is credit discrimination against the unmarried (or to put it another way, that you will do better in a joint purchase if you are married than if you are unmarried):</p>
<p># Unmarried joint applicants are sometimes offered credit on less favorable terms than married counterparts.  ( Unmarried America Business Week 10/20/03, <a href="http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/.../b3854001_mz001.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/&#8230;/b3854001_mz001.htm</a> )</p>
<p># The High Cost of Being Single in America, or the financial consequences of marital status discrimination, by Thomas F. Coleman &#8212; this has quite a bit on this subject in the &#8220;4. Credit discrimination&#8221; section<br />
<a href="http://www.unmarriedamerica.org/cost-discrimination.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.unmarriedamerica.org/cost-discrimination.htm</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Is Marriage a Risk to Your Credit Rating? Guest Post by Rajiv Garg by Bella</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 22:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please keep comments fairly short and relevant to the theme of the post.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Is Marriage a Risk to Your Credit Rating? Guest Post by Rajiv Garg by sesameB</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 22:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rajiv Garg, you rock! Here is one for ya&#039; ---
Sale of big-game trophies to be allowed in divorce cases By TIM MOWRY(03/12/12 13:04:13) “Board member Nate Turner, who splits his time between Fairbanks and a homestead on the Kantishna River, said the new regulation might help Alaska&#039;s divorce rate. &quot;I think once people realize they can lose their trophies through divorce they might not want to get divorced,&quot; he said.”

FAIRBANKS -- Alaskans who get divorced and don&#039;t want to look at the moose head their hunting-crazy spouse hung on the wall now have an option. They can sell it. 
While the Alaska Board of Game rejected a proposal to allow the sale of big-game trophies in Alaska during its meeting in Fairbanks last week, the board agreed to add divorces to the list of special circumstances under which the sale of big-game trophies in Alaska would be allowed. Previously it was legal to sell big-game trophies ONLY if they were part of an estate settlement, included in a bankruptcy sale, or if they were mounts prepared by taxidermists that went unclaimed. &quot;I support this,&quot; board member Ted Spraker of Soldotna said during discussion of the proposal. &quot;There will be very limited cases and it&#039;s probably usually a case where people are in some financial situation.&quot;  The proposal was submitted by Mary Jane Sutliff, an Anchorage attorney who said she ended up with a Dall sheep mount and black bear hide as a result of her 2008 divorce.   &quot;I inherited trophies from a divorce,&quot; Sutliff wrote in her proposal. &quot;I did not want them. I would like to sell them.&quot; In a phone interview, Sutliff said her ex-husband &quot;unloaded&quot; the trophies on her, as well as several others, thinking his son would get them. &quot;It was a way for him not to have to pay to store them,&quot; she said. Dale Rabe, interim director for the state&#039;s Division of Wildlife Conservation, said the Alaska Department of Fish and Game didn&#039;t have a problem with adding divorces to the list of circumstances allowing the sale of big-game trophies. &quot;I don&#039;t see this happening very often,&quot; Rabe told the board. The proposal passed by a 5-2 vote. Lynn Keough of Anchorage was one of two board members to vote against it. &quot;Can you tell me how you get divorced and end up with things you don&#039;t want?&quot; Keough asked. &quot;I&#039;ve been divorced twice; I can tell you how,&quot; replied Spraker, drawing a laugh from the audience and fellow board members. For example, Spraker said, a divorce settlement may stipulate that one person gets the house with the furnishings, which might include mounts on the wall.  &quot;Say the wife didn&#039;t want that mounted moose head over the fire place and wants to sell it,&quot; Spraker said. Board member Nate Turner, who splits his time between Fairbanks and a homestead on the Kantishna River, said the new regulation might help Alaska&#039;s divorce rate. &quot;I think once people realize they can lose their trophies through divorce they might not want to get divorced,&quot; he said. Sutliff said she intends to talk to her son to see if he &quot;has an emotional attachment&quot; to any of the trophies she acquired and if he doesn&#039;t, she plans to sell them. &quot;I&#039;m not going to store them,&quot; she said. &quot;I&#039;ll market them and sell them.&quot; The Game Board had a more serious discussion on a proposal to allow the sale of trophy mounts, which was submitted by the Fairbanks Fish and Game Advisory Committee. The proposal asked that hunters be allowed to sell trophies that have been prepared by taxidermists because they are personal property. In the last two months, there have been two cases in Fairbanks where people were cited for selling big-game trophies. One man was fined $500 for selling a Dall sheep mount he claimed to have purchased at a garage sale several years ago. He advertised the mount on Craigslist and an undercover Alaska Wildlife Trooper responded to the ad. The same thing happened to another man who was fined $500 for selling the skull and horns of a musk ox on eBay. Spraker said he was &quot;solidly opposed&quot; to allowing the sale of taxidermy mounts in Alaska. Enterprising hunters and taxidermists would be able to cash in on such a law by selling trophies to tourists for big bucks, he said. &quot;If we open the sale of trophies I think we&#039;re heading down a path to the market hunting scheme we had years ago,&quot; Spraker said. &quot;Everybody I&#039;ve talked to has said if you don&#039;t have sale of trophies in your state, don&#039;t start it.&#039;&quot; Board member Nick Yurko of Juneau said allowing the sale of trophies is &quot;another place for an outlaw to get started.&quot; Initially the proposal received some support from board members Lynn Keough, Cliff Judkins and Teresa Sager-Albaugh. Keough, of Anchorage, said the state already allows the sale of black bear hides and noted other states allow the sale of big-game trophies. &quot;We can choose to broaden our horizons or bury our head in the sand and live in the past,&quot; he said. Judkins, of Wasilla, said once a hunter pays to have a trophy prepared, it should become his or her personal property and they should be able to do with it whatever they want.  &quot;If someone&#039;s got a mount on the wall and they move to a house with a smaller wall where it won&#039;t fit or they&#039;re moving out of state, they ought to be able to sell an item instead of throwing it away,&quot; he said. Sager-Albaugh, of Tok, agreed and said the fears of about selling big-game trophies are &quot;overstated.&quot; &quot;Legalizing the sale of trophies won&#039;t increase the bag limits,&quot; she said. &quot;It&#039;s not like we&#039;re opening up opportunities to harvest dozens of trophy grizzly bears or sheep to be taken down to a shop to be sold.   &quot;Once you&#039;ve legally harvested a trophy it&#039;s yours,&quot; Sager-Albaugh said. &quot;You should be able to do with it what you want.&quot; But Turner, who works as a big-game guide, pointed out hunters pay thousands of dollars to come to Alaska seeking big-game trophies. Many of those hunters probably would be willing to pay the same kind of prices if they didn&#039;t have to actually go hunting. &quot;I imagine there would be quite a number of people willing to pay to have a trophy if they didn&#039;t have to go hunting,&quot; Turner said. &quot;I have no doubt I could make a living with this if it was freed up.&quot; In the end, after hearing from legal adviser Kevin Saxby with the Department of Law, the board voted the proposal down 7-0. &quot;The more we turn wildlife into an article of commerce the harder we make it to defend the preferences we make between residents and non-residents,&quot; Saxby advised.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rajiv Garg, you rock! Here is one for ya&#8217; &#8212;<br />
Sale of big-game trophies to be allowed in divorce cases By TIM MOWRY(03/12/12 13:04:13) “Board member Nate Turner, who splits his time between Fairbanks and a homestead on the Kantishna River, said the new regulation might help Alaska&#8217;s divorce rate. &#8220;I think once people realize they can lose their trophies through divorce they might not want to get divorced,&#8221; he said.”</p>
<p>FAIRBANKS &#8212; Alaskans who get divorced and don&#8217;t want to look at the moose head their hunting-crazy spouse hung on the wall now have an option. They can sell it.<br />
While the Alaska Board of Game rejected a proposal to allow the sale of big-game trophies in Alaska during its meeting in Fairbanks last week, the board agreed to add divorces to the list of special circumstances under which the sale of big-game trophies in Alaska would be allowed. Previously it was legal to sell big-game trophies ONLY if they were part of an estate settlement, included in a bankruptcy sale, or if they were mounts prepared by taxidermists that went unclaimed. &#8220;I support this,&#8221; board member Ted Spraker of Soldotna said during discussion of the proposal. &#8220;There will be very limited cases and it&#8217;s probably usually a case where people are in some financial situation.&#8221;  The proposal was submitted by Mary Jane Sutliff, an Anchorage attorney who said she ended up with a Dall sheep mount and black bear hide as a result of her 2008 divorce.   &#8220;I inherited trophies from a divorce,&#8221; Sutliff wrote in her proposal. &#8220;I did not want them. I would like to sell them.&#8221; In a phone interview, Sutliff said her ex-husband &#8220;unloaded&#8221; the trophies on her, as well as several others, thinking his son would get them. &#8220;It was a way for him not to have to pay to store them,&#8221; she said. Dale Rabe, interim director for the state&#8217;s Division of Wildlife Conservation, said the Alaska Department of Fish and Game didn&#8217;t have a problem with adding divorces to the list of circumstances allowing the sale of big-game trophies. &#8220;I don&#8217;t see this happening very often,&#8221; Rabe told the board. The proposal passed by a 5-2 vote. Lynn Keough of Anchorage was one of two board members to vote against it. &#8220;Can you tell me how you get divorced and end up with things you don&#8217;t want?&#8221; Keough asked. &#8220;I&#8217;ve been divorced twice; I can tell you how,&#8221; replied Spraker, drawing a laugh from the audience and fellow board members. For example, Spraker said, a divorce settlement may stipulate that one person gets the house with the furnishings, which might include mounts on the wall.  &#8220;Say the wife didn&#8217;t want that mounted moose head over the fire place and wants to sell it,&#8221; Spraker said. Board member Nate Turner, who splits his time between Fairbanks and a homestead on the Kantishna River, said the new regulation might help Alaska&#8217;s divorce rate. &#8220;I think once people realize they can lose their trophies through divorce they might not want to get divorced,&#8221; he said. Sutliff said she intends to talk to her son to see if he &#8220;has an emotional attachment&#8221; to any of the trophies she acquired and if he doesn&#8217;t, she plans to sell them. &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to store them,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I&#8217;ll market them and sell them.&#8221; The Game Board had a more serious discussion on a proposal to allow the sale of trophy mounts, which was submitted by the Fairbanks Fish and Game Advisory Committee. The proposal asked that hunters be allowed to sell trophies that have been prepared by taxidermists because they are personal property. In the last two months, there have been two cases in Fairbanks where people were cited for selling big-game trophies. One man was fined $500 for selling a Dall sheep mount he claimed to have purchased at a garage sale several years ago. He advertised the mount on Craigslist and an undercover Alaska Wildlife Trooper responded to the ad. The same thing happened to another man who was fined $500 for selling the skull and horns of a musk ox on eBay. Spraker said he was &#8220;solidly opposed&#8221; to allowing the sale of taxidermy mounts in Alaska. Enterprising hunters and taxidermists would be able to cash in on such a law by selling trophies to tourists for big bucks, he said. &#8220;If we open the sale of trophies I think we&#8217;re heading down a path to the market hunting scheme we had years ago,&#8221; Spraker said. &#8220;Everybody I&#8217;ve talked to has said if you don&#8217;t have sale of trophies in your state, don&#8217;t start it.&#8217;&#8221; Board member Nick Yurko of Juneau said allowing the sale of trophies is &#8220;another place for an outlaw to get started.&#8221; Initially the proposal received some support from board members Lynn Keough, Cliff Judkins and Teresa Sager-Albaugh. Keough, of Anchorage, said the state already allows the sale of black bear hides and noted other states allow the sale of big-game trophies. &#8220;We can choose to broaden our horizons or bury our head in the sand and live in the past,&#8221; he said. Judkins, of Wasilla, said once a hunter pays to have a trophy prepared, it should become his or her personal property and they should be able to do with it whatever they want.  &#8220;If someone&#8217;s got a mount on the wall and they move to a house with a smaller wall where it won&#8217;t fit or they&#8217;re moving out of state, they ought to be able to sell an item instead of throwing it away,&#8221; he said. Sager-Albaugh, of Tok, agreed and said the fears of about selling big-game trophies are &#8220;overstated.&#8221; &#8220;Legalizing the sale of trophies won&#8217;t increase the bag limits,&#8221; she said. &#8220;It&#8217;s not like we&#8217;re opening up opportunities to harvest dozens of trophy grizzly bears or sheep to be taken down to a shop to be sold.   &#8220;Once you&#8217;ve legally harvested a trophy it&#8217;s yours,&#8221; Sager-Albaugh said. &#8220;You should be able to do with it what you want.&#8221; But Turner, who works as a big-game guide, pointed out hunters pay thousands of dollars to come to Alaska seeking big-game trophies. Many of those hunters probably would be willing to pay the same kind of prices if they didn&#8217;t have to actually go hunting. &#8220;I imagine there would be quite a number of people willing to pay to have a trophy if they didn&#8217;t have to go hunting,&#8221; Turner said. &#8220;I have no doubt I could make a living with this if it was freed up.&#8221; In the end, after hearing from legal adviser Kevin Saxby with the Department of Law, the board voted the proposal down 7-0. &#8220;The more we turn wildlife into an article of commerce the harder we make it to defend the preferences we make between residents and non-residents,&#8221; Saxby advised.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is Marriage a Risk to Your Credit Rating? Guest Post by Rajiv Garg by sesameB</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 20:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the feedback, it made my day.  A recent case in point: “ Joy Powers, who helped to build and maintain the site, said many locals didn’t realize how much the town had to offer until they went online. Recruiting new residents is a bonus, she said. “We are holding our own. I mean we struggle. We don’t have a McDonald’s and we don’t have a Walmart and we never will,” she said. “You have to find your niche here, but it’s a great place for families.” 
N.D. home purchased on eBay By DAVE KOLPACK &#124; Associated Press &#124; Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 12:30 am--FARGO — James Stiles doesn’t hunt, fish, bird watch or yet dig for dinosaur bones — the typical hobbies that draw people to North Dakota. He’s moving to the state to increase his stock as a ham radio operator. The 57-year-old Stiles, retired for five years from a career as a computer whiz with the U.S. Department of Defense, recently bought with his wife Sue a house sight unseen — on the Internet auction site eBay, no less — in the small southeastern North Dakota town of Edgeley.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the feedback, it made my day.  A recent case in point: “ Joy Powers, who helped to build and maintain the site, said many locals didn’t realize how much the town had to offer until they went online. Recruiting new residents is a bonus, she said. “We are holding our own. I mean we struggle. We don’t have a McDonald’s and we don’t have a Walmart and we never will,” she said. “You have to find your niche here, but it’s a great place for families.”<br />
N.D. home purchased on eBay By DAVE KOLPACK | Associated Press | Posted: Monday, March 12, 2012 12:30 am&#8211;FARGO — James Stiles doesn’t hunt, fish, bird watch or yet dig for dinosaur bones — the typical hobbies that draw people to North Dakota. He’s moving to the state to increase his stock as a ham radio operator. The 57-year-old Stiles, retired for five years from a career as a computer whiz with the U.S. Department of Defense, recently bought with his wife Sue a house sight unseen — on the Internet auction site eBay, no less — in the small southeastern North Dakota town of Edgeley.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Yasmin Nair Asks Whether We Would Defend Limbaugh’s Targets if They Were Not “Good Girls” by sesameB</title>
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		<description>Rush L.  is a nut! Thank you Dr. DePaulo, your work is valuable to my life here in rural south central sunny Arkansas, keep on blogging.

Don&#039;t Let Anyone Bring You Down(2:55) Song Lyrics (the late M. Riperton R. Rudolph)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rush L.  is a nut! Thank you Dr. DePaulo, your work is valuable to my life here in rural south central sunny Arkansas, keep on blogging.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t Let Anyone Bring You Down(2:55) Song Lyrics (the late M. Riperton R. Rudolph)</p>
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